Published in Curious·PinnedMember-only4 Really Small Things That Say a Lot about YouHint: It’s not what you say. — Ever been asked to say a few things about yourself? Perhaps you said you’re a good communicator, attentive to details, or a team player. The point being, we all define ourselves in a certain way. Here’s the paradox, though; It’s not what you say that is an accurate representation of…Self6 min readSelf6 min read
Published in Hello, Love·PinnedMember-only5 Underrated Reasons a Man Leaves a Good WomanLove isn’t a magical cure for a lasting relationship. — Once in a while, something happens that makes us lose our equilibrium in life, leaving us with more questions than answers. We question our character, our self-imposed beliefs, and our ability to make proper choices. …Relationships8 min readRelationships8 min read
Published in Hello, Love·PinnedMember-only3 Non-Sexual Qualities Guaranteed to Make You More AttractiveAnd how you can develop them. — Picture this. It’s a warm afternoon, and you’re in your favorite coffee shop, slowly sipping away your double espresso and minding your own business. A few minutes later, a couple walks in, and just by looking at them, you spot something odd. They seem somewhat mismatched — as if they…Relationships6 min readRelationships6 min read
Published in Wholistique·PinnedMember-onlyThe Brutally Honest Advice about Divorce That No One Tells YouRead this before signing those divorce papers. — You’re trapped in a soul-crushing marriage that you can’t wait to leave. You’re tired of burying pieces of yourself in the rubble of a dead marriage. You’ve heard stories of divorced individuals who have found love and are now as happy as ever. It sparks hope within you. You look…Divorce5 min readDivorce5 min read
Published in Publishous·Feb 10Member-only8 Life-Changing Things You’ll Never Regret Doing.#Not waiting for an apology. — This morning, a newsletter dropped in my inbox. The author had listed 30 things we would regret in thirty years. I clicked on it so fast you’d have thought my fingers were on fire. Then suddenly, I stopped and thought, ”Why and I so keen to read this?” Well… because…Society5 min readSociety5 min read
Published in Hello, Love·Feb 10Member-only5 Things You Should Totally Be Picky AboutIf you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything. — You probably think being picky is egotistical or arrogant. It’s not. It’s the best way to practice self-preservation. You see, so many of us follow the wind whichever way it blows. Then we wonder why we live in circles. Someone once said, “If you don’t stand for something, you will…Self4 min readSelf4 min read
Published in Hello, Love·Feb 6Member-only5 Subtle Signs You Are To Blame for Your Toxic Relationship.If you learn to take care of yourself, you won’t need people to take care of you. — Recently, I met an old friend whom I hadn’t seen for almost two years. I expected her to be the same person I’ve always known, but people can change a lot in two years, as I later came to learn. We spent the weekend together, but by the end of…Relationships6 min readRelationships6 min read
Published in Publishous·Feb 3Member-only5 Little Things Happy People Do Differently Than Others.It’s time to borrow a leaf. — Often, we think the state of happiness means an absence of struggle and difficulty. But that’s actually not true. Happiness is born out of struggle and difficult moments. These are the cocoons that nest happiness. But when we’re right in the middle of them, we rarely see happiness as a…Happiness5 min readHappiness5 min read
Published in Publishous·Dec 7, 2022Member-only6 Biggest Mistakes People Make in Their Twenties.Let’s help each other dodge the bullets that life shoots at us. — The other day I caught up with some old friends. As we reminisced about our college days, it dawned on me that every single one had a thing or two they wished they had done differently in their twenties. Why the twenties? You ask, Because in your twenties, you still…Advice8 min readAdvice8 min read
Published in Hello, Love·Dec 6, 2022Member-onlyFive Things Emotionally Abused People Need to Understand to Heal CompletelyI wish I could say you’ll walk away and never remember that person ever again. — If you’ve been through a divorce, sexual abuse, childhood trauma, or a toxic relationship with anyone — parent, boss, or partner, it’s safe to say you’ve experienced some emotional abuse. As a divorced person, I’ve realized that emotional abuse sits between two opposite dimensions: Catastrophizing and diminishing. Victims often catastrophize…Abuse6 min readAbuse6 min read
