Published in Curious·PinnedMember-only4 Really Small Things That Say a Lot about YouHint: It’s not what you say. — Ever been asked to say a few things about yourself? Perhaps you said you’re a good communicator, attentive to details, or a team player. The point being, we all define ourselves in a certain way. Here’s the paradox, though; It’s not what you say that is an accurate representation of…Self6 min readSelf6 min read
Published in Hello, Love·PinnedMember-only5 Underrated Reasons a Man Leaves a Good WomanLove isn’t a magical cure for a lasting relationship. — Once in a while, something happens that makes us lose our equilibrium in life, leaving us with more questions than answers. We question our character, our self-imposed beliefs, and our ability to make proper choices. …Relationships8 min readRelationships8 min read
Published in Hello, Love·PinnedMember-only3 Non-Sexual Qualities Guaranteed to Make You More AttractiveAnd how you can develop them. — Picture this. It’s a warm afternoon, and you’re in your favorite coffee shop, slowly sipping away your double espresso and minding your own business. A few minutes later, a couple walks in, and just by looking at them, you spot something odd. They seem somewhat mismatched — as if they…Relationships6 min readRelationships6 min read
Published in Wholistique·PinnedMember-onlyThe Brutally Honest Advice about Divorce That No One Tells YouRead this before signing those divorce papers. — You’re trapped in a soul-crushing marriage that you can’t wait to leave. You’re tired of burying pieces of yourself in the rubble of a dead marriage. You’ve heard stories of divorced individuals who have found love and are now as happy as ever. It sparks hope within you. You look…Divorce5 min readDivorce5 min read
Published in Publishous·Dec 7, 2022Member-only6 Biggest Mistakes People Make in Their Twenties.Let’s help each other dodge the bullets that life shoots at us. — The other day I caught up with some old friends. As we reminisced about our college days, it dawned on me that every single one had a thing or two they wished they had done differently in their twenties. Why the twenties? You ask, Because in your twenties, you still…Advice8 min readAdvice8 min read
Published in Hello, Love·Dec 6, 2022Member-onlyFive Things Emotionally Abused People Need to Understand to Heal CompletelyI wish I could say you’ll walk away and never remember that person ever again. — If you’ve been through a divorce, sexual abuse, childhood trauma, or a toxic relationship with anyone — parent, boss, or partner, it’s safe to say you’ve experienced some emotional abuse. As a divorced person, I’ve realized that emotional abuse sits between two opposite dimensions: Catastrophizing and diminishing. Victims often catastrophize…Abuse6 min readAbuse6 min read
Published in Hello, Love·Dec 1, 2022Member-onlyHere Are Some Insightful Truths You Can Learn About These Three Types of PeopleAs a flight attendant, I’ve harnessed the ability to profile them to a t. — It’s amazing what you learn by watching how someone walks, dresses, reads, and eats. If you’ve ever looked at someone and wondered what they are like, how their homes look like, what they do for work, and what they love, then you’re in luck. In my line of work, I…People7 min readPeople7 min read
Published in Hello, Love·Nov 30, 2022Member-onlyFive Seemingly Attractive Personality Traits That Ruin a RelationshipThey are all often cute. Until they aren’t. — You loved that she was a health freak. She looked sexy and fabulous. Your health was in safe hands. Now? It’s downright annoying because she dictates what you eat and how much you eat. You loved his passion for music. Now? He does nothing but work on his music all…Personality8 min readPersonality8 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION-Curated·Nov 25, 2022Member-only7 Cold, Harsh Truths About Life That Everyone Should Know.At times hard work equals stress, backache, obesity, heart disease, and death. — Everything in life is about creating hope so that we can escape the harsh realities of life. Years ago, I read a book about hope and why we can’t live without it — whether or not things eventually manifest according to the hope we hold out. In it, the author explained that all we do in the business of life is create hope so that we can…Advice6 min readAdvice6 min read
Published in Hello, Love·Nov 24, 2022Member-onlyToxic Double Standards Society Has Normalized (That Need To Die)You need to start verifying what you hear. — Have you ever taken advice from someone at some point in your life only to realize a few years later that they were the wrong people to advise on the subject? I bet you have because scenarios like this happen too frequently. People are so keen to dish out advice…Society5 min readSociety5 min read
