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How to Make People Like You Without Being Fake

It’s easier than you think.

4 min readAug 9, 2020

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It sounds vain right?

And yet, if you were to be really honest, you’d admit it. You want people to like you because it will make you popular and bring you great satisfaction in life.

You’ll go much further in life if people like you, whether or not you have the right qualifications. Being liked will get you anything like that promotion you desire, or that person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

We seem to think some people were born with the element of likability in them, right? That they are just lucky to be popular. Other times we believe the false notion that one has to look a certain way or attain a particular status to be likable.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

Being liked is easy. If you can adopt the following traits, you’ll increase your likability dramatically.

Develop A Genuine Interest In Others.

Several years ago, I had a “friend” I used to hang out with a lot. We’d often talk about the details of our lives. However, after a while, started to notice that she couldn’t remember most of the details I had told her about my life.

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Leah Njoki
Leah Njoki

Written by Leah Njoki

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